In MySQL 3.23.44 and up, InnoDB tables support checking of foreign key constraints. See InnoDB. See also ANSI diff Foreign Keys.
You don't actually need foreign keys to join two tables. For table types other than InnoDB), the only things MySQL currently doesn't do are 1) CHECK to make sure that the keys you use really exist in the table or tables you're referencing and 2) automatically delete rows from a table with a foreign key definition. Using your keys to join tables will work just fine:
CREATE TABLE person ( id SMALLINT UNSIGNED NOT NULL AUTO_INCREMENT, name CHAR(60) NOT NULL, PRIMARY KEY (id) ); CREATE TABLE shirt ( id SMALLINT UNSIGNED NOT NULL AUTO_INCREMENT, style ENUM('t-shirt', 'polo', 'dress') NOT NULL, color ENUM('red', 'blue', 'orange', 'white', 'black') NOT NULL, owner SMALLINT UNSIGNED NOT NULL REFERENCES person(id), PRIMARY KEY (id) ); INSERT INTO person VALUES (NULL, 'Antonio Paz'); INSERT INTO shirt VALUES (NULL, 'polo', 'blue', LAST_INSERT_ID()), (NULL, 'dress', 'white', LAST_INSERT_ID()), (NULL, 't-shirt', 'blue', LAST_INSERT_ID()); INSERT INTO person VALUES (NULL, 'Lilliana Angelovska'); INSERT INTO shirt VALUES (NULL, 'dress', 'orange', LAST_INSERT_ID()), (NULL, 'polo', 'red', LAST_INSERT_ID()), (NULL, 'dress', 'blue', LAST_INSERT_ID()), (NULL, 't-shirt', 'white', LAST_INSERT_ID()); SELECT * FROM person; +----+---------------------+ | id | name | +----+---------------------+ | 1 | Antonio Paz | | 2 | Lilliana Angelovska | +----+---------------------+ SELECT * FROM shirt; +----+---------+--------+-------+ | id | style | color | owner | +----+---------+--------+-------+ | 1 | polo | blue | 1 | | 2 | dress | white | 1 | | 3 | t-shirt | blue | 1 | | 4 | dress | orange | 2 | | 5 | polo | red | 2 | | 6 | dress | blue | 2 | | 7 | t-shirt | white | 2 | +----+---------+--------+-------+ SELECT s.* FROM person p, shirt s WHERE p.name LIKE 'Lilliana%' AND s.owner = p.id AND s.color <> 'white'; +----+-------+--------+-------+ | id | style | color | owner | +----+-------+--------+-------+ | 4 | dress | orange | 2 | | 5 | polo | red | 2 | | 6 | dress | blue | 2 | +----+-------+--------+-------+